My Journey to Greatness: Learning to Live in the Moment

My morning started out interesting. I had every intention of following up on learning about the 5 second rule that I came across on yesterday,The 5 Second Rule: Transform your Life, Work, and Confidence with Everyday Courage, since I know that hesitation has had a big impact on why I'm not where I would like to be at the present moment. Instead I found myself clicking on another video featuring Mel Robbins (link at bottom). One of the things talked about in the video is how to live in the now. 

Here's some things that she said that stuck with me:

If you are living in the past, you're going to be depressed because you are rehashing things that are not going to happen again. If you are living in the future you are going to be anxious because you are anticipating what is coing or you are wishing for things that aren't happening yet. 

Being in the present moment is where you will have the greatest control, where you will feel the most at ease and where happiness flourishes. There is a super tight connection between happiness and the ability to live in the present moment 

To ground yourself in the moment, when you find your mind wandering and starting to worry look for something now that you can focus on right now.

That last part was important to me. I now are more aware of when I am starting to worry and have self-doubt and since I recognize what I am doing I am more able to stop these negative thoughts in their tracks. It has done wonders for my outlook and mood. (See full video below)

                                                                

(These would be perfect to send out to family and friends)

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Wednesday Wisdom - Mel Robbin's 10 Rules for Success

So I am sitting here drinking my coffee, eating donuts and watching a video on YouTube entitled 'Mel Robbins's 10 Rules for Success' (video below). I had never heard of her before I started perusing around YouTube for motivational videos (I am a little bit addicted lately). The most intriguing part of this video is the 5 second rule.

I have encountered this so many times in my life. I will have this great idea and think about doing it, then nah I talk myself out of it and go on to something else. Months later, I will come back to the same idea but this time actually act on it and what do you know it usually works out. I end up thinking to myself, "Why the heck didn't I just do this in the first place?!!" I've added her book The 5 Second Rule: Transform your Life, Work, and Confidence with Everyday Courage to my To Be Read List. 

Take a look (listen) and let me know what you get out of the video.

(Video from Evan Carmichael's channel - Great videos)

                                                                        

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Decorating Ideas Inspired from Chip & Joanna's Fixer Upper

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I went on Twitter today and saw Fixer Upper was trending and I thought 'Cool! That's one of my favorite decorating shows' so I clicked on it to see why it was trending then Nooooooooooooo!!!!! Are you serious?! Ugh! They can't be calling it quits. (Insert like 1 million sad faces here). 

I mean is it just me or have the decorating shows really gone down lately. I don't watch the channel nearly as much as I used to. They seem to only want to stick to one type of show and one type of formula. Not everyone can be a Chip & Joanna. Anyways, I love her style and love even more that she is self taught. So does this mean that I can one day learn to be Joannaish? Probably not but a girl can dream :)

Below are a few decorating items that I found to give you the look from some of my favorite makeovers. 

Here's one of my favorite rooms:

I like the copper lights in the background but I found one that I liked a little better because it looked lighter (click on picture for source)

Here are a few more farmhouse style lights that I like that are like her style (imo)

         

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What Successful People Do Before Breakfast- Insight 1 - Wake up Earlier

I've been reading What the Most Successful People Do Before Breakfast and have really gotten some great information and insight from the book. Over the next couple of weeks, I'm going to explore some of the lessons that I learned from the book and share them here on my blog. 

One of the first things I 
got from the book was that I was not getting up early enough. I pretty much knew this already  because whenever I finally get a chance to sit sit down and start on something in the morning, I feel it was way too late. I would often wonder 'Where has the morning gone?'. Unfortunately I am not a "morning person" (poor excuse I know), but I realized that I needed to become one.

Starting last week, I've began getting up a little earlier. I'm starting with 30 minutes earlier than usual. Even that has made a big difference in my morning. I start off my morning with some positive affirmations and some 17 seconds law of attraction techniques. I want to eventually get to where I am waking up at 6 am. 
 



                 

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Starting Over and Discovering Your Passions Later In Life

I am at a point in my life where I feel like I am starting over yet again. My beautician asked me a few weeks ago what my dream job was and it threw me for a minute. I have always wanted a more analytical type job, but then I wondered is that what I want or what I am supposed to want?

As fate would have it they were discussing on the radio today achieving your goals later in life. The topic came about because the radio show had an intern that was 33. One of the main requirements of being an intern was that you were in college. They had people calling into the show to tell what dreams they have started to pursue later in their life.

It was refreshing for me to hear these callers. I have recently started taking my resell business online more seriously and think that this type of 'job' is what suits me best. It is something that I love to do especially reselling books. I have always been a bit of a book nerd lol.

Here are a few books on restarting or discovering your passions:




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Do You Like Unique Mystery Novels with Animal Dectives?

I literally started to chuckle when I came across Three Bags Full and read the description. The book is about a flock of sheep who set out to find out who killed their beloved shepherd, George.

The book got pretty good reviews with people liking the perspective on how the sheeps think. A lot of people found the book to be quite humorous as well. I am definitely going to have to put this on my list of books to read.

 I thought that this was definitely a unique angle to have animals as the lead characters in murder mysteries or was it? After looking it up I found that Goodread had a listing of books with this just theme. Here are a few that sounded interesting to me.

• The Cat Who Could Read Backwards I can't believe I forgot about these books by Lilian Jackson Braun. I used to see them all of the time in the library and said I should read them since I love murder mysteries. 
• Hide and Seek (The September Day Series) (Volume 2)This book sounds really. It's about a woman who escapes her capture and is struggling with overcoming that harrowing event. She also has a dog and a cat that is struggling to overcome some issues as well. They have to solve this mystery as the stalker is bent on revenge.
• Dog on It: A Chet and Bernie Mystery (The Chet and Bernie Mystery Series) This sounds pretty good. 

Do you have any animal themed books that you like? Chime in on my book reader's Facebook post and let me know. I'm always looking for a good read.

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10 Affordable Ideas for Wedding Favors That Your Guests Will Love

I am selling the above book called in my ebay store. It got me to thinking about my cousin's wedding. It was an awesome wedding that was inexpensively put together. To make it even better Hurricane Matthew came through the day before so we didn't have any power in the venue. They ended up having to a candlelit wedding and it looked planned. It turned out beautifully.

She had a candy bar at her wedding and I almost ran over the children to get my candy lol. Here are 10 ideas from Pinterest for some great and inexpensive wedding favors. 

1) Anything coffee related I am down for so I am bookmarking this one to use later (if my Prince Charming ever get here that is)

2) I am all about the reception since I love to dance. Why not send the guest home with some of your favorite song on your playlist from the night?

3) This is a cute idea and who doesn't love popcorn?

4) Share a coke with the ones you love right? They can keep the whole drink forever as a momento or even if they decide to drink it, they will still have the bottle.

5) I love candles to this idea is great! 

Sidenote: I love this wedding dress. A co-worker recently got her dress off of Amazon. What does your dream dress look like?

6) This is cute and simple. Roll up some mints in burlap (You can find burlap ribbon in dollar stores) add a pretty tag and flower and you're done!

7) Mmm hot chocolate. This would especially be great for a winter wedding.

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8) I love, love Starburst jelly beans. The only problem with this wedding favor is how many of them would actually make it into the bottle? :)

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9) These succulents are too cute!

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10) Love this idea!

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I'm becoming a little obsessed with bicycles lately so I am loving these favors:

                          

(3,4&5 came from himisspuff.com 100 cute wedding ideas)
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